My lack of ingenuity fails to fathom our desire to surround ourselves with negativity in the face of happiness,finding faults or condemning the most innocuous of actions and not being completely honest with our loved ones.Relationships can be best described as a collage of different emotions where each piece should be unique and pieced together with utmost care not overstepping on the other.
More than trust, i think, the essence of every relationship is based on mutual understanding and acceptance of the other person's views, even if u disagree,in that case we can put forth our opinions without negating theirs and respecting others individuality.Relationships bonded by blood also run the risk of going astray if neglected or discredited so other relationships for example between friends,couples,colleagues etc.should be handled with more maturity and openness; not once forgetting the fact that they are all precious, thus have to be nurtured.
Basically all relationships are governed by love, compassion and mutual respect, care should be taken not to let asperity pierce the fine fabric of faith woven by each other otherwise it will leave a debilitating effect and later on each scar will narrate its story.Generally when situations fail to play to our tunes, we tend to become overcritical and over analyze them; in that case we can either frustrate ourselves or just accept and move on not to let bitterness creep in.
In a way we all are victims of the choices which lead to our present circumstances and at times the circumstances force the choices on us: either way the reality has to be accepted as we cannot force them to confirm to our beliefs in order to escape self condemnation and frustration.
In the early stages of any relationship,the focus is mainly on the virtues and more on the surface but as time goes by the togetherness deepens and reality bites: take your call as to which level the relationship will go and accept it without ever underestimating it.Since change is an essential part of growing up, be prepared to embrace it and adjust to it to eschew stagnation or find yourself on the path of rejection and unhappiness,both within and around.No matter what mood you are in, take care not to hurt the people you love and respect because they have no part to play in the events that are unfolding before you,either make them a party or restrain yourself till you clear the dust.
this is a very insignificant occurrence yet an important one; yesterday night,due to some problem with the AC of our room, we were forced to shift to the guest room; morning greeted me with freshness and agility and I felt the absence of aches and pains which i accredited to vitamin deficiency and for which i was regularly popping pills:the change of mattress did the trick.I suffered for so long and this somehow escaped my attention.uh!
More than trust, i think, the essence of every relationship is based on mutual understanding and acceptance of the other person's views, even if u disagree,in that case we can put forth our opinions without negating theirs and respecting others individuality.Relationships bonded by blood also run the risk of going astray if neglected or discredited so other relationships for example between friends,couples,colleagues etc.should be handled with more maturity and openness; not once forgetting the fact that they are all precious, thus have to be nurtured.
Basically all relationships are governed by love, compassion and mutual respect, care should be taken not to let asperity pierce the fine fabric of faith woven by each other otherwise it will leave a debilitating effect and later on each scar will narrate its story.Generally when situations fail to play to our tunes, we tend to become overcritical and over analyze them; in that case we can either frustrate ourselves or just accept and move on not to let bitterness creep in.
In a way we all are victims of the choices which lead to our present circumstances and at times the circumstances force the choices on us: either way the reality has to be accepted as we cannot force them to confirm to our beliefs in order to escape self condemnation and frustration.
In the early stages of any relationship,the focus is mainly on the virtues and more on the surface but as time goes by the togetherness deepens and reality bites: take your call as to which level the relationship will go and accept it without ever underestimating it.Since change is an essential part of growing up, be prepared to embrace it and adjust to it to eschew stagnation or find yourself on the path of rejection and unhappiness,both within and around.No matter what mood you are in, take care not to hurt the people you love and respect because they have no part to play in the events that are unfolding before you,either make them a party or restrain yourself till you clear the dust.
this is a very insignificant occurrence yet an important one; yesterday night,due to some problem with the AC of our room, we were forced to shift to the guest room; morning greeted me with freshness and agility and I felt the absence of aches and pains which i accredited to vitamin deficiency and for which i was regularly popping pills:the change of mattress did the trick.I suffered for so long and this somehow escaped my attention.uh!